I wonder?

Why is it when you tell someone to stay strong, be firm, plant your feet and keep your head high in hard times they go on and start doubting if you have ever felt pain as if my words of encouragement is judging them? They begin to judge the authenticity of my pain like I’ve never lost or been in love then broken or never been abused as if I never thought about leaving and never coming back. I swear we have to stop running into the weak corners of our hearts and brains trust me I know it hurts but do not magnify that pain it will be ok trust me. I don’t know your story you don’t know mine I’m not judging you so don’t judge me I just beg and ask you to push through that depression turn that weakness into strength. How dare I ask this of you? Easy! I’ve been there so please when you read this remove that feeling of comparison out your mind and thinking of my pain doesn’t measure up to yours I’ve found strength and so can you. It may take a bit of time coming out of it but at least your fighting. This is all directed a comment someone left on my “weakness is a choice” post thank you for listening tumblr hopefully I don’t get a negative response from this post I meant nothing but good but there are a lot if people out there hurting and I know emotions can feel as heavy as a ton on your back just work through it pls. Oh one more thing why would someone think I haven’t been through something with a blog named “Strength From Struggle”?